It's quarantine. I'm an introvert. I also want to find a future husband somehow. It seems obvious to me that I should do sorting mechanisms for my twitter followers, or offer a bounty or a quiz, but I just know it'd make me the ass end of a meme so fast.
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I really like being alone; for someone to be awesome enough that I prefer it over being alone, I have specific and kinda weird preferences. I don't know the most efficient way of finding people who match these preferences, but there's gotta be *something* to do.
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Side note: I wrote up a 'date me?' summary that described my specific preferences and asked people to contact me. I sent it to a friend for review, who showed his friend without telling her the context, and she asked if he was showing her a karen meme. :( :( :(
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Didn't you make a survey for your followers, to see if you'd be interested in anyone who filled it out? What ever became of that?
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It was scored, yeah. My ex took it (who's a good example of someone who would score in the range I was looking for) and he was by far the highest score. After that big gap there were a few people I knew already and knew I didn't want to date.
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I know a woman who met her husband and is still happily married because she offering $600 to anyone who introduced her to someone she dated for 6 months or more. It's worth doing and you can just tell the group whose judgement you respect the most.
Why do you want to get married?
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I don't need to get 'married', I'm mostly using the word for a partner that does practical family things. I'd like to be in a position to have a kid if I decide I want to, also.
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Do you believe that a female's history with frowned upon social behaviors might eliminate the largest section of available mates? Including those who do not (at a conscious level) find such behaviors particularly negative.
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Oh yeah definitely. But my preferences already eliminate the largest section of available mates, by the time we get around to 'oh and i do porn' the difference in acceptance doesn't budge much.
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