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I used to experience those sensations while “young” in my 20’s, and at 42 I’m pretty comfortable with myself and how I donduct myself. I don’t veer away from my established norms much these days.
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I used to much more strongly. I think a desire for "harmony" and a strong tendency to be diplomatic have largely subdued that emotional reaction, although it's still there. I have probably done healthier things to myself