Talking to me and my siblings/parents would have you having a very hard time finding the intersection in beliefs and behaviors but then again that holds for the entirety of the country I grew up in so wtf do I know.
no surprise at all; our overlords chose them for their specific traits to put me with... to say I was created for them would be an overstatement, I was created for more than that but they were chosen to nurture and raise me on purpose.
It's a bit strange but the sense of your identity coming from a single sperm or egg is preposterous. Any one of those numerous contenders would have resulted in more or less the same you. They all had the same genetic material.
As an adoptee who only got to meet the bio-paternal (but not bio-dad, he's long dead) side for the first time 8 months ago, many more things make sense.
I’d have to meet my dad to really say, but my mother and I are nothing alike psychologically save for a handful of minor traits, so it is quite a surprise we are so different.