If you could see any random person for who they truly are, in their entirety, down to every detail, you'd feel more _____
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I would love this, I think people are mostly the same inside emotionally, I think it would help bring everyone closer and make life less performative
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Why would I feel in love with any random person? Statistically I wouldn't have feelings for them regardless of knowing those details...
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"I think it’s impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe, and not love them the way they love themselves." - Enders Game
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I’m curious how the “horrified”-choosers feel about themselves and their significant others. It seems to me that understanding = loving in some way, and that superficial admiration is just as it sounds.
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We tend to expect the horrors because they are more in the public eye. What we don't see is little acts of kindness, they don't make the news or an interesting movie. We also don't see insecurities or fears that aren't extreme...