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traumatized, I mean, your entire sexual history can come into play, if it's extensive or unconventional it will certainly be used against you, and on top of that, why is "resolution" needed on someone else's personal decision? Seems like that part is resolved & cross examination
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rather than sympathy/support from parts of her own twitter following is a good example of why someone might be hesitant to report? I know you're questioning why not report rather than what happened, but still, geez. Sorry if I'm coming off hostile but I'm not getting what is
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Because when you bring up personal experiences to justify political claims those personal experiences become the subject of scrutiny. If you don't want to discuss them you shouldn't bring them up on a platform for discussion.And I'm not interrogating anyone. Replying is voluntary
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Also "he said/she said" implies there is no other evidence, tho you do have wacked out (flatly evil) defense/juries doing things like making the case (and getting an acquittal) where things ON VIDEOTAPE are framed as "consensual" and "audition tape for weird kind of porn"
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see: gang rape of unconscious woman who passed out as party, videotape, "audition for unconscious porn" or some such bullshit, and an audio, iirc, of police raping a woman where the claim was it was all a rough sex game, even tho they hadn't known her before this.
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See also: everyone on both juries and defense teams should have their various body parts mixed in w/the rapists and strewn over a city block, while I get to listen to their recorded death screams as my go-to-sleep music. :-) (sorry, needed to vent after recalling these)
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Useful for what though? I am aware of it's limitations and selection effects. But its not treated like any other anecdote and you know it. It has a huge emotional weight and it would be sociopathic for me to argue about it's emotional relevance to you. So what is to be achieved?