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    1. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 24 May 2020

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      Ok i want to tease out a specific thing - there's a phenomenon i wish i had a term for, but it's where "when you place intense social judgment on a thing, this increases the likelihood that the only participation of that thing will be negative." For example, stigma against-https://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1264589810242424833 …

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      People generally view self harm as a "very bad" thing that they will try to help you stop if they find out you do it. Can someone explain to me why it's bad? If it's done safely, with no lasting damage, and is an effective method of stress relief, why is it so bad?
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    2. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 24 May 2020

      prostitution means that most of the people who go into prostitution have to eschew society's blessing, and people who eschew society's blessing probably already have a lot of other things wrong with them, so we end up with "prostitution = desperate drug addicts." My question is,

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      Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 24 May 2020

      is this phenomenon at play with self harm? Like, is the intense social stigma against self harm causing a similar association, where the only people who finally go do the self harm end up doing it irresponsibly, unsafely, and out of desperation?

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        1. TheRakeOfCharlotte‏ @rake_of 24 May 2020
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          Something similar to the #Streisandeffect but with a social judgement?

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        2. Gorky Rojas  😺 💻‏ @RojasGorky 24 May 2020
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          Would a lot more people self-harm if not for the stigma? Can "self-harm" be positive if done responsibly (responsibly?) and not out of desperation?

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        3. the opg‏ @AdmiralOPG 24 May 2020
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          Yup, and that's essentially BDSM (at least the S&M part is)

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        1. Emilio Silva Schlenker‏ @e18r_ 24 May 2020
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          Definitely. I think taboos from other cultures can shed some light into this. For example in Egypt women who go to nightclubs are viewed as sinners. So we end up with "going to nightclubs = prostitution".

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        1. Giulio Giacomo Cantone‏ @JayCanto 24 May 2020
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          A form of assortative socialisation. I don t remember the exact terminology. Is related to assortative mating, low optionality and survivorship bias, altought not any of these 3. Also, general theory: self harm is the pathological expectation that somebody else will notice it.

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        1. Cooparchy‏ @cooparchy 24 May 2020
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          Of these two, one has much high potential for a profit motive...

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        1. the opg‏ @AdmiralOPG 24 May 2020
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          yes; people who self-harm aren't in the headspace to safely fill those needs, but since those needs are taboo they can't get the education/support to be safe especially since truly safe self-harm would look like BDSM, which is its own can of taboo wormshttps://twitter.com/AdmiralOPG/status/1264597476939612160 …

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          What you're really thinking of, though, when you say "self-harm done safely as a form is stress relief" is BDSM Since there's a dom/sadist keeping things from getting out of hand (in theory), that allows for the sensations to relieve stress with limited risk
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        1. Shrug Life‏ @shekfu 24 May 2020
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          I think you're onto something

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        2. Xavier M‏ @undercoolband 24 May 2020
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          Also in play: "I am so highstatus and can damage myself and still be sought after" and "I do not agree with (society at large) and mark myself accordingly" and "I look up to edginess in this respect, and wish to embody this" AND "PLEASE notice how I hurt and intervene!!!"

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        3. Xavier M‏ @undercoolband 24 May 2020
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          Working in a rehab for drug/alcohol addiction and eating disorders, almost every female in-patient eating disorder client had significant scarring from self-harm. Brain chemistry can lead to self-harm addiction and a need to "increase the dose" to battle dependance

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