(for clarification, 'high waisted' refers to pants that hit around the waistline, or closer to the level of the bellybutton. 'low waisted' refers to pants that come up closer to the hip bones, or sometimes lower).
I need to see a picture of a "sexy" high wasted pant, because I'm so put off by them that I can't imagine it. Like, they can only be sexy on a woman who is so sexy that the whole package is sexy despite the pants. Or maybe you really meant medium wasted?
I am male I said low waisted. I asked my partner, she said “it depends. High waisted if jeans low waisted if leather cuz you can see the hips” and I realized females think about this in a lot more detail/nuance than dudes.