my sex worker friends talking to each other be like 'yeah my bf actually paid for half of the meal' and we're like 'holy shit thats so hot'
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Just to clarify, does this mean it was hot that they paid for *only* half instead of all ("equality, yay"), or hot that they paid for their own half instead of making her pay for all of it ("he's not a leech, yay")?
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the latter - it's hot that he's actually holding up his own end financially.
It's common among the people I know in sex work that the women earn the majority income and pay for the men.
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Are they not dating the right men? Or maybe they're making so much bank the men can't keep up? Like, if you make $120k+ as a man, is that still lower? 'Cause that'd typically pay for meals. Asking for a friend.
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yeah if you're cloistered with your main dude, sometimes baby daddy, sometimes long term bf of 6 years, it just ends up making more sense to have the dude stay at home instead of having him leave for 40 hours a week to make not nearly as much money