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    1. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 8 May 2020

      I very often want to say "yes, actually, that thing you accept as a default in your life is actually borne out of insecurity and fragility", while *also* wanting to convey "insecurity/fragility is absolutely okay; often tolerating it in ourselves is necessary for enjoying life"

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      Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 8 May 2020

      this mostly comes up when I want to discuss how actually this 'default frame' is truly borne out of insecurity - but it's hard to do that without implying also that the insecurity is bad and you should get rid of it. Like, yes, but get rid of it only if you have room to do so.

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        1. Xavier M‏ @undercoolband 8 May 2020
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          same

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        2. Misha Gurevich. Angel Investor, Photographer.‏ @drethelin 8 May 2020
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          I feel like a ton of the time when people make fun of insecurity it is in fact an insecure situation and there's nothing to be done

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        3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 8 May 2020
          Replying to @drethelin

          Yes! I sort of feel this way about monogamy. A lot of people are monogamous cause it's the only way to keep their partner from leaving them for someone they like better - it's a legitimately insecure situation and it makes sense to feel insecure about it.

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        2. visa is catching up on... tasks‏ @visakanv 8 May 2020
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          alan watts had some fantastic riffs on insecurity the problem with "insecurity is bad" is that it tends to come from a place of insecurity as well, so in practice it ends up being "banish all SIGNS of insecurity", which is neurotic and stressful

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        3. visa is catching up on... tasks‏ @visakanv 8 May 2020
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          visa is catching up on... tasks Retweeted Alan Watts

          properly resolving insecurity typically involves letting go. accepting it. nothing can ever be perfectly secure without simultaneously turning into a prisonhttps://twitter.com/AlanWattsDaily/status/1008713269627052037 …

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          Alan Watts @AlanWattsDaily
          The desire for security and the feeling of insecurity are the same thing. To hold your breath is to lose your breath. A society based on the quest for security is nothing but a breath-retention contest in which everyone is taut as a drum and purple as a beet.
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        2. Nicholas Verkaik‏ @TheNicksWager 8 May 2020
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          I find myself with in same quandary often. As much as it interests me and I mean well, it rarely goes well. I often wonder about approaches that take into consideration things about myself and them, but I think most people just don't want to hear about it from someone else.

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        3. Nicholas Verkaik‏ @TheNicksWager 8 May 2020
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          If they are going to fix it, address it, as painfully obvious as it might seem to people around them, it has to be their journey.

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        1. two craps and a queef  💛/ 🖤‏ @the_f_m 8 May 2020
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          It's hard to undermine and affirm people at the same time like that in a way that ends well for your relationship. Easier to just go your own way and let them figure it out if they will.

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        1. EmmyJewel‏ @Emmyjewel 8 May 2020
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          Do u think religion fits well with that description? That’s what I first thought of

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