I wonder how much of my difficulty understanding nonbinary identities comes from having been in sex work for sooo long, where the genitals you have are incredibly important to how you're treated and the role you play.
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My roommate wants to know if you have the same incomprehension of binary trans people since presumably they would have the same mismatch between genitals and "role", except if they get very rare/expensive surgery.
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Not really. The thing that makes men want to pay is often "the appearance of woman", which trans people can have if they pass hard enough.
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Id assume if they pass, gay men will be their primary funding source, a'la buck angel.
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In general trans people make way more sense to me than nonbinary ppl. Trans people are just trying to switch the category convincingly. Nonbinary people are saying no category applies, which is mind boggling for me.
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I feel like there are a whole wealth of human interactions that are not "paying for or being paid for sex/porn" which do not rely on this categorization.
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I think there's a lot of human interactions which aren't being paid for sex/porn that do also rely on this categorization.