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Aella
@Aella_Girl
You're at a party. Your significant other spends an hour or so flirting with an attractive person at the party. Nothing escalates, but you notice your partner does playfully touch them on the arm/back a few times. You feel:
  • Really uncomfortable
    42.3%
  • Slightly uncomfortable
    37.7%
  • Okay or neutral
    12.1%
  • Happy/encouraging
    7.9%
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
I've been poly for nearly ten years, and absolutely have been madly in love with someone while simultaneously flirting with someone else. And my partners have done the same! Feeling attractive and teasing people has nothing to do with being in love with someone else, for me.
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
Not necessarily? For me it's proof of security. If I can feel happy that my partner is flirting with someone else, then that's good evidence that I'm really secure in the relationship and feel confident that he's not going to leave me.
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