Polyamory itself is ugly
- leads to anxiety & depression
- erodes paternity certainty/foundations necessary for family formation
- erodes social trust
- requires obscene logistical/emotional overhead
- leads to the breakdown of civilization
I’ve never met a happy poly person
There are, or at least were, sizeable poly scenes in DC & Seattle, but with time, most of my friends in those circles have eventually turned toward more monogamous relationships—many for the some of the reasons above.
Here is a super happy couple plus more. Yet another example that clearly proves that being happy for any amount of time means that all your choices are completely correct. No need to look into matters.