I usually assume people, when selecting mates, have a calibration thing in their heads that evaluates the pool of mate choices "in their league", and then experiences attraction to a top narrow percent of them. I also assume this percentage remains stable; as in, if you-
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I have a hunch that we go for who we are physically attracted to but then backfill in the story for the holistic aspect. if they're attractive and quiet then it's 'oh, they're thoughtful'. if he's attractive and loud its 'oh, they're funny'. what do you define as holistic?
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I remember I was at a retreat, and we were talking up a guy who was late to arrive. Told stories, said he was fantastic. Later on, a girl at the retreat hooked up with him. When asked about it later, she said that the fact he was so well liked by the group pre-made her attracted.
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