You were transphobic. You're not a piece of shit but maybe you should reflect on what you said because it was totally unnecessary. Very roundabout way to say "I'll use your pronouns" and then still be transphobic when no one asked how you saw them.
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Replying to @adultscreams @beholdento
Transphobic feels like a war, shutdown word at this point, like people use that word as some final accusatory label and then I'm expected to be 'oh shit you're right let me say the appropriate measures so you lift that terrible stamp". I'm not actually afraid of trans people.
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Replying to @Aella_Girl
Does homophobia mean "afraid of gay people" no, it includes prejudice as well. Same thing here. No one's calling you transphobic to shut you down, they're really just trying to tell you how it is. There was no reason for your tweet, very ignorant mindset, all due respect
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Replying to @adultscreams @Aella_Girl
Why use a person's pronouns and then give them an opinion on their body and life that wasn't asked for?
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Replying to @adultscreams @beholdento
I *don't* do this. I literally do not do this. I'm not an asshole.
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Replying to @Aella_Girl
Your tweet in question (or at least the one I've seen floating) said "in an ideal world, I'd use your pronouns, but I also see you as your biological sex". that's unnecessary.
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Replying to @adultscreams @beholdento
My ideal world is unnecessary? I don't do the thing I stated in my ideal world, because my the current world is not oriented in such a way that people would understand what I was communicating. People are acting like I go around refusing to use pronouns - I *do not* do this.
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Replying to @Aella_Girl
No, they're acting like you'd bring up a trans persons birth sex for no reason, which is what you'd ideally like to do like you said.. What is gained from your ideal interaction vs reality? I'm actually curious. Most trans people would be made incredibly dysphoric from your words
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Replying to @adultscreams @beholdento
Oh it is for a reason - they want me to use a description (pronouns) for them that is contradictory to my experience of them. That feels weird to do for me. In my ideal world, I'd like to be able to talk about this being weird and the fact that I'm doing this *for* them.
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Replying to @Aella_Girl
It's "weird" only because it's different from your experience of gender. Your gender aligns with your sex (or maybe I'm assuming too much- if so tell me), so all is well and "normal". Othering trans people like this is the mindset that people are calling you out for.
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I don't have an experience of gender. My gender lies in the perceptions of the people around me. But yeah, it's a weird experience. and that's ok - I'm not judging myself for that. I'm also not judging trans people for feeling pain because i feel weird.
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