There have been studies done of the brains of transgender people that show that, for example, a trans woman's brain is more similar to a cis woman's brain than a cis man's, and vice-versa. So there's science to back it up.
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Yeah I'm down with that! I do think there's definitely something going on in some people's brains that make them feel like they need to change their body. I believe this is true and believe they should be able to change their body.
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That something is probably what makes them feel like the gender they are.
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but we're back to the thing i don't get. I understand wanting to change your body. I understand wanting people to treat you differently. I understand having nonstandard expression preferences. I'm down with all that. But what does this have to do with gender?
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It's not just about wanting people to treat you differently.
It's about wanting to be who *you* are.
A trans woman is a woman whose body is wrong (I apologize to anyone I offend for using inaccurate terminology here, I don't quite know the right words to use). She was always-
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a woman - her gender was always female - but her body didn't match that. For many (but not all) this causes a lot of distress (dysphoria).
Yes, being recognized properly as who you are is huge. But being able to see *yourself* outwardly reflected as you are on the inside is-
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more important, to my admittedly limited understanding.
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Thanks for engaging with me on this so far.
My confusion here is now something like... what 'is' a woman? If you feel like a woman... how do you know? What's that like? What constitutes the 'woman' that you feel like?
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I'm *extremely* confused when I get to this question when trying to understand the enby/trans/pronoun framework. This is close to the core of why none of this makes sense and why I'm using my own system.
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I suppose it is difficult to convey that to someone who has no sense of their own gender identity. It's... difficult to explain. I can't really say why I feel like a man, for example. I just do.
Regarding engaging with you, I'm going to be honest: your thread angered me. -
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I'd be really interested if you can figure out why you feel like a man. I have more questions to try to suss it out, but it's late now and I've been on twitter for way longer than is healthy today so I'm not gonna start the conversation now.
That is entirely fair. It's pretty late here too and I should probably be sleeping, but instead I'll likely stay up a bit scrolling Twitter or reading comics 😂
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