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Aella
@Aella_Girl
ok I think the thing about genderpeople that *actually* bothers me is that I feel not allowed to use my own gender framework around them. I honestly don't give a shit how they present, how deviant from gender norms they are, whether they wear makeup or a boy cut. (1/6)
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Queer Villain Apologist
@OingoBoingoStan
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@Aella_Girl
the "genderpeople" are usually the first people tell people they don't have to do x to be x gender because we know what it's like to have that sort of stuff pushed on us though. Also, please don't call us that, it's about as disrespectful as alphabet people
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
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@OingoBoingoStan
I'm happy to find a different term! I want a term that summarizes "People who strongly support the gender framework that treats gender as a self-identification", so if you have a more respectful one you suggest I'm glad to move to it. I used 'genderpeople' cause it felt neutral.
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
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@VilebloodFae
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@voidwaIker
I used that term because I'd never heard it before so I figured it'd be free of associations. But 'normal people' is waaay too vague to communicate what I'm trying to; I'm looking for a term for "enbies, trans, and cis people who are very serious about preferred pronouns"
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