Aella on Twitter: "@BladesQueer @shirgoldbird That's not what gaslighting is? Gaslighting is manipulating people into questioning their own sanity. If being honest about my experience of them counts as gaslighting theennnn idk I regularly practice gaslighting with my close friends." / Twitter

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Apr 7, 2020

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Other people calling me a woman makes me a woman. I don't really feel like I'm anything; the way I look shapes how people treat me, and this relationship between appearance and treatment seems to be what my gender is.

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I'm not telling them what they are, I'm telling them the gender *I process them as*.

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That's not what gaslighting is? Gaslighting is manipulating people into questioning their own sanity. If being honest about my experience of them counts as gaslighting theennnn idk I regularly practice gaslighting with my close friends.

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but see you're arguing this from a completely different understanding of gender than I have. It's like a christian arguing that the bible is true because the bible says it's true. It's like, okay I understand you believe this but this doesn't actually address why I disagree

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