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    1. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 29 Mar 2020

      I've always been focused on the social stigma behind sex work, with how men wont date sex workers being evidence. But I totally forgot to consider that men themselves are under intense social pressure to not date sex workers, they get hit with just as much social shameing.

      43 replies 6 retweets 186 likes
    2. Skeleton Bastard‏ @SkeletonBastard 29 Mar 2020
      Replying to @Aella_Girl

      I have a few things to say about this. It might take me a minute, and it might not be useful, but it's worth a shot. I'm someone with this stigma re: having a partner that is or was a sex worker. Insofar as I'm transparent to myself, I can go over some of the reasons here.

      1 reply 1 retweet 4 likes
    3. Skeleton Bastard‏ @SkeletonBastard 29 Mar 2020
      Replying to @SkeletonBastard @Aella_Girl

      My first wife was a former prostitute. Through her, I ended up working security in a handjob parlour. Through that, I shared a lot of space and time with the women who worked there. This is in a society where prostitution is legal.

      1 reply 0 retweets 3 likes
    4. Skeleton Bastard‏ @SkeletonBastard 29 Mar 2020
      Replying to @SkeletonBastard @Aella_Girl

      It became my opinion, based on the drug, alcohol, relational and mental health issues I saw, that these women had become sex workers primarily from a place of unwellness and limited choices rather than authentic, free agency.

      2 replies 0 retweets 9 likes
    5. Skeleton Bastard‏ @SkeletonBastard 29 Mar 2020
      Replying to @SkeletonBastard @Aella_Girl

      In other words, they weren't "freer", they were compromised. In shorthand, I felt like there was a lot of dark triad shit going on, and perennial self-identity issues that seemed like hell to deal with.

      1 reply 0 retweets 3 likes
    6. Skeleton Bastard‏ @SkeletonBastard 29 Mar 2020
      Replying to @SkeletonBastard @Aella_Girl

      But that's one anecdotal bag of experiences, whatever. I think the same kind of pattern holds in the porn industry, re: rates of addiction, personality pathology, trait neuroticism, and so on.

      1 reply 0 retweets 3 likes
    7. Skeleton Bastard‏ @SkeletonBastard 29 Mar 2020
      Replying to @SkeletonBastard @Aella_Girl

      I honestly acknowledge that there are some, even many people who, at all ends of sex work, pursue that work authentically, from a sturdy foundation of self, and truly enjoy what they're doing.

      1 reply 0 retweets 2 likes
    8. Skeleton Bastard‏ @SkeletonBastard 29 Mar 2020
      Replying to @SkeletonBastard @Aella_Girl

      I think the likelihood of any given man or woman being such a case is rather low. In that way, being a "sex worker" is a roulette wheel of possibilities where 75% of them suggest illness rather than wellness.

      1 reply 0 retweets 4 likes
    9. Skeleton Bastard‏ @SkeletonBastard 29 Mar 2020
      Replying to @SkeletonBastard @Aella_Girl

      If a person is okay with sex work because their Self is somehow compromised, then to build a relationship with them is like building a castle on the edge of an eroding cliff. The structure isn't sound. Maybe it'll be fine, maybe it won't. But it's a bad bet.

      1 reply 0 retweets 2 likes
    10. Skeleton Bastard‏ @SkeletonBastard 29 Mar 2020
      Replying to @SkeletonBastard @Aella_Girl

      That's all. Sorry for the spam, and sorry if this is all self-evident to you.

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      Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 29 Mar 2020
      Replying to @SkeletonBastard

      There's the phenomenon where if you ban a subculture from a larger internet forum, they go onto a different website to make their own, and the quality degrades hugely. It has something to do with, people who are willing to switch sites for that subculture are disproportionately-

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        2. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 29 Mar 2020
          Replying to @Aella_Girl @SkeletonBastard

          dedicated to the subculture, which often takes away the more nuances voices or people who did it for fun. I think this is what's happening with sex work. If you put a huge social barrier in front of sex work, the only people who will cross that barrier have a strong need to do so

          2 replies 0 retweets 22 likes
        3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 29 Mar 2020
          Replying to @Aella_Girl @SkeletonBastard

          So you will see disproportionately troubled, desperate people, and very few nuanced voices of "girls who are trying it out for fun". If you instituted similar walls around other professions I bet you'd see the same effect

          0 replies 0 retweets 15 likes
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