The last few guys I dated would regularly wear women's clothing and I didn't mind at all. I've applied makeup to many of my male friends! Despite how I look, I'm also pretty deviant, and deeply sympathize with the difficulty of failing to perform the 'correct' gender norms. (2/6)
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So to reiterate - any expression you want to have with your own body, clothing, mannerism, vocabulary - I welcome it. But I want to retain ownership over the way gender resonates with me. To me, all that stuff above has very little to do with gender. (3/6)
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To me, expression is independent of gender, and your gender is completely outside of your control; it resides in the eyes of society. Gender *is* an assignment of society. And so when people expect me to view them as a gender I don't view them as, that just does not work.(4/6)
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I can't view them as the gender they want no matter how hard I try. And to be clear, I still use preferred pronouns and try to do all the least upsetting things for genderpeople. I just am bothered by how afraid I feel to express the way I experience gender. (5/6)
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In my ideal world, they would say "Hey, my pronouns are they/them", and then I'd say "Nice to meet you! I process your gender as your birth sex and don't view you as nonbinary personally, but I'm happy to use your pronouns if that makes you more comfortable." (6/6)
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Aaaaand what category does gender dysphoria fall under? Hobby, personality trait, or clothing?
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The reason is simple. They are FACTUALLY NOT the gender they claim they are. That make up they wear, how they present themselves is simply IRRELEVANT.
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Guys I found the dictionary, he decides definitions and facts.
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Totally agree. As a short guy, I'm going to start FUCKING SHRIEKING if anyone looks down while they're talking to me. I'm going to make everyone pretend to look up while they're talking to me, as if I'm taller than they are, and they will address me as "Big Guy", or else!
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I don't really like this attitude. While I don't agree with enby frameworks, I still want to try to maintain compassion and space for them as much as possible. I don't have to understand or get it in order to treat them with respect.
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