Historically, when you've been on a date with someone you weren't into, you've taken a strategy closer to:
A. Come up with excuse to leave early, reject them later when they ask for a second date.
B. Let them know I'm not feeling chemistry, in a gentle way during the date.
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You're on a date with someone. They're not feeling it and want to end the date early.
They should...
A. Pretend their friend needs them, Gently reject me later when I ask for a second date.
B. Gently let me know they're not feeling chemistry, and reject me right then.
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As I understand it, dating protocols are sufficiently different in Brazil so that this question doesn't apply properly.
I did spend some nights chatting with women I quickly figured I had no intention to get further intimacy with, though.
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Even with people find out during a date that I'm not 'into' I can still find a way to make the date entertaining most of the time. So, continue the date and then afterwards let them know you don't see it going anywhere/you weren't feeling the chemistry/spark.
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Can you not just enjoy the date for what it is, even if you are not into the person, and end it after the night is over?
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My personal non favorite. Let the date go ahead, have fun, let it finish naturally. Then avoid the guy. Have it coaxed out of you later that THE reason is the earth didn't move in one little goodbye kiss on the cheek.
Glad she saved me the trouble, my wife and kids are awesome!