If the girl has been expecting it her whole life, keep the same. I doubt it would be a spot of contention.
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No. Not because of anything about the trans daughter, because a promise was made to the other daughter
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Same as if you adopted a cis adolescent girl and she was eldest
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I'd say talk to both children, give them a say in it?
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Give it to the one who births your first grandbaby.
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give it to the biological female bc she has the greatest chance of producing offspring, whom she can then pass it down to.
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She should talk to them and figure out how they both feel about it... and whether she cares more about the tradition or keeping promises. Or you know, not build up a child's expectation of receiving a particular item their whole childhood.
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This was how I thought about it. Validating her older daughters transition would be meaningful, but the younger daughter who has been expecting that heirloom her whole life should certainly have her feelings accounted for
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