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    1. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 9 Feb 2020

      1/When I was eight, I was molested. The experience wasn't scary or painful, just confusing and uncomfortable, because I didn't understand what was going on. After becoming an adult, I experienced a strong incentive to reinterpret what had happened to me as-

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    2. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 9 Feb 2020

      2/traumatic. Sexual assault on children was considered to be one of the worst things that could happen, and if it happened to me, then it should have seriously fucked me up, right? I started to interpret problems in my life as having been caused by those childhood events.

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    3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 9 Feb 2020

      3/But after some time, I stopped doing that, because I realized I was trying to force a narrative. In reality, the experience I had as a child had very little, possibly no long-term adverse effects on me. The actual adverse effects came from other things - a sense of

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    4. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 9 Feb 2020

      4/betrayal of adults who were supposed to had been more protective of me, and a serious awkwardness around the molester in later years. I feel a bit of fear saying all this, because THE IMPLICATIONS. Did I want it? Am I saying it wasn't serious? Am I minimizing? Am I delusional?

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      Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 9 Feb 2020

      5/No, yes, no, and no. I'm being honest about my experience. I also don't mean other people need to interpret their experiences the same way - but I DO recognize that culture seriously pressured me, with partial success, into experiencing suffering I wouldn't have had otherwise.

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        2. Dr. Spacey B, PhD‏ @Space_Boy_Ben 9 Feb 2020
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          People sure do enjoy believing all trauma is processed similarly. When my dad died, I didn't cry at the funeral (I'd cried plenty leading up to it and felt I had to be strong for my mom) but this was interpreted by several (not close) family members that I didn't love my dad.

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        3. Dr. Spacey B, PhD‏ @Space_Boy_Ben 9 Feb 2020
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          I also dealt with many peers who couldn't believe I'd come back to school "so soon" (as if I really had a choice) and that if their parent had died, they wouldn't be able to do anything ever again. In any case I'm sorry people made you feel bad for not feeling bad enough about it

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        2. Mustard of your doom‏ @windlashed 9 Feb 2020
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          I would *never* wish to dismiss or attempt to make light of an individual's trauma, but I do sometimes wonder how often past trauma (especially sexual trauma) results in socially pressured suffering like you describe.

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        3. Mustard of your doom‏ @windlashed 9 Feb 2020
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          Clinical psychology tends to be most effective when an individual is given an opportunity to decide how they feel about something rather than being told they should feel a certain way. It's easy to leave destructive impressions on someone who has experienced something "bad".

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        1. androboy‏ @androboy14 9 Feb 2020
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          Same except I didn’t try to reinterpret my experience as traumatic. But it was always curious to me that it wasn’t.

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        1. Shut It Down. So much dumb.‏ @ShutItAIIDown 9 Feb 2020
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          Very few people decouple their thoughts from their expectations. Most of those people had to endure some trauma to get there. I'm sorry that happened to you. But you have a mental freedom & clarity few others posses.

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        2. Katertot 💕‏ @madoka_magikate 9 Feb 2020
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          This is really interesting... this reminds me of studies on how children feel/react to pain. Usually they are completely unfazed, or will look to an adult to see how they should react. If the adult seems scared or upset they will cry, and if the adult stays calm they will too

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        3. Katertot 💕‏ @madoka_magikate 9 Feb 2020
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          *Something I heard once, upon further research I can't seem to find articles supporting this

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        1. Grei‏ @GreiSands 9 Feb 2020
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          There are indigenous people whom molest their young, but it’s conditionally loving in a tightnit community. Comparing to first world where the existential freedom holds to one self to be sacred as an individual to hold that trust to only strict preferences of power relationships

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        1. Emma  💉‏ @EmmaGorowski 9 Feb 2020
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          Thank you for sharing. I have often wondered if the culture you refer to can make it worse for some people, but don’t have personal experience.

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