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Aella
@Aella_Girl
Replying to
@cl_gamble
@UshanOfBlook
and
@kittypurrzog
What I mean by this is that I view any sort of philosophy that requires other people to view you a certain way *or else you experience a lot of pain* to be possibly quite unhealthy. I imagine a good, aligned person doesn't feel the need to control the way other people see them.
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
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@Aella_Girl
@cl_gamble
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And to be clear, it's okay to have coping mechanisms for things that aren't healed - we all do, and I'm not saying you *shouldn't* take this solution if it's the best one available to you. I just suspect it's a result of not actually having all your shit worked out.
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
I think I'm reading this as 'be more clear.' I have some idea if that people understand what I'm saying then it's totally fine and everyone will be like 'oh yeah ok nbd' and that all the issues come from miscommunication.
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