This is the most incoherent thing I’ve read in a while. There’s hardly any discussion of dysphoria or bodies but lots of talk about fashion. These people think “gender identity” is something akin to the soul but the way they talk about it is pure style.
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I'm increasingly viewing non-binaryness as more an expression of trauma and a desire to be understood as not a typical [insert birth sex here], and less to do about gender itself at all.
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I don't understand what a gender is then. What do you mean by gender?
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How would a binary person describe gender? How does a binary woman explain how she knows she’s a woman.
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For me, I'm a woman because other people treat me like a woman (stuff like try to have sex with me, give me money for getting naked), and because I have a vagina.
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I don't know what that means. I treat my nonbinary friends the way they want me to, which is using preferred pronouns and not referring to them as a man or woman, but besides that the way I treat them is completely unchanged from if they were just their birth sex.
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There are cis male sex workers who get payed for sex/getting naked. Does that make those men women.
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But genitalia does not equal gender. A vagina does not make someone a woman.