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I personally find it pretty unsexy if a guy has to require verbal consent before kissing me or escalating. I understand why they have to do it but for me personally it's a turnoff and signals an inability to read my body language/lack of social skills.

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Do you feel this way only about guys who ask verbally because of the current me too climate, or does it apply to people who just naturally have that communication style?

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Both? It indicates lack of confidence and lack of ability to read me, at least to my subconscious

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I consciously agree with you. My vagina does not find it sexy no matter how much I agree that you're being reasonable.

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I am curious: 1. Do you find that there's variance in how much you're turned off - like some men do it in a way that turns you off less? 2. Has a man asking resulted in a sexual encounter not happening that otherwise would have happened?

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1. Yes, but I think the variance is small. 2. No

2:21 AM · Feb 4, 2020