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If you're female, do you find it unsexy when a guy verbally asks consent in a romantic context like a date (regardless if you consciously support him doing this)?

Yes, unsexy
9.9%
No, still sexy
7.4%
I've never seen this
3.2%
I'm not female
79.4%

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7:59 PM · Feb 3, 2020

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Ooana Trien ~ Eric Arthur Blair’s mistress

@ooana

Feb 5, 2020

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@Aella_Girl

So unsexy it’s a guaranteed way to have me say “well not anymore.”

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Once tried this on someone who, publicly, was very much into the "💯 explicit consent is sexy" brigade. 💯 turned her off and did not get laid.

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This whole question feels like a really small part of attractiveness overall. Like, sure, it's kind of exciting to navigate expectations around intimacy early on with someone. But it feels pretty insignificant compared to everything else.

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@AdmiralOPG

Feb 3, 2020

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@Aella_Girl

@CasperSav get in here

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depends. Generally it's not a terrible thing. I wouldn't put it as strike against a dood.

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It's usually better to just tease a girl until she begs for it, than to actually request her verbal consent.

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Do you think *stating* what you want to do (ie, "I am going to kiss you") is as bad as outright asking? I would think it would be far better... This whole "affirmative consent" stuff is awkward and unnatural. More garbage from the "woke" community.