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Why does the male gender role have generally less flexibility? Feminine men seem more mocked than masculine women, you can name a baby girl 'Max' but it's weird for a baby boy to be "Sarah", women being bi is basically a fun norm while 'bi guys' are stereotyped as gay. Why?
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Honestly? The explanation doesn't easily fit in a tweet, but in a sense 'capitalism'. As feudalism fell away only men's labor was paid, leading to a crude separation of "productive" and "reproductive" labor (housework/raising a family). These roles reenforced themselves /1
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yeah but why is *that* a symptom of homophobia? Why are two gay women not seen as a threat? I could easily imagine a world where people hate gay women more because they're not "presented as available to men" and gay men are just written off as "dudes being horny"
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The idea that women are pure? Perhaps my word choice was poor, but I meant that it's a sexist perspective put forth in a society where men have more economic power (esp a generation or two ago). Women can be sexist too, of course. Minorities can be racist, even against themselves