When I feel attracted to someone, I'll ask them on a date, or flirt, or talk to them more, or whatever. Nearly every single time, after getting to know them better, I lose my attraction to them. This is such a common pattern that I've stopped pursuing people I'm attracted to,
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Replying to @Aella_Girl
Yes, I have this too. It seems that what I'm attracted to is novelty. Keeping expectations in check has helped, I think, as well as recognizing that no one is really mysterious once you know them well enough.
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Replying to @wglane3
That makes sense! I don't think I'm attracted to novelty to that extent, but probably a lot of people with similar problems to me, are.
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