When I feel attracted to someone, I'll ask them on a date, or flirt, or talk to them more, or whatever. Nearly every single time, after getting to know them better, I lose my attraction to them. This is such a common pattern that I've stopped pursuing people I'm attracted to,
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What is it you don't like about 1?
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Given how intelligent and "agenty" you are, I'm not surprised. Maybe this isn't a very useful pointer, but have you tried focusing on pursuing people who you already have reason to believe are smart, driven and open-minded?
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Sounds like you're having trouble meeting people that satisfy your intellectual needs. Being that you're on the higher side of intellect it's going to be difficult to find. There's not really an easier solution than to keep trying. Maybe look in higher thought careers?
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I suspect some of these might be antagonistic traits. Flexible things tend to be less stable. If the only way not to check one box is to check another, then no wonder it gets tricky.
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Because your initial attraction is physical and primal. Once you learn more about them your emotional attraction is non-existent. That's common with people who know themselves better than others.
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So you’re “physically” attracted to them first, but once you get to know them, you lose the attraction because of their traits?
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