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Aella
@Aella_Girl
I personally don't 'get' what women mean when they talk about experiencing sexism and harassment and lack of safety - I don't relate to it or experience it very much, and I know some other women who agree. It's weird the disparity here, that some women report so much trouble...
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
With men and others don't. My theory is that it's 'prey vibe'. Due to whatever reasons probably outside my control, I don't exude 'being prey'. I've been paying more attention lately to women who experience harassment, and I think they do exude prey vibe - the body language is
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
Slightly more negatively responsive, there's more avoidance in stuff like eye contact and positioning of body, there's sort of a self-protective air, like they're aware there is something to protect. I'm not saying harassment is their fault at all, but it's my theory as to why
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
So there's a way in which it is their fault, in the way everything that happens to you is your fault. But I view it like, I'm fine with saying tallness is what causes people to hit their heads on doorframes, but I don't think 'tallness is your fault' is useful here.
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