“I don’t know any woman who genuinely wants to receive a ‘compliment’ from a stranger when she is on her way to work, carrying her groceries, out for a run or minding her own business on an elevator.” 21July Ask Amy column, not yet online. Are you M/F, & do you know such a woman?
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Replying to @Aella_Girl @robinhanson
Say more? I like it rarely. If I feel safe and the compliment resonates with how I'm trying to present, it can be alright. Generally I find it annoying / distracting / threatening.
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Replying to @mesolude @robinhanson
Catcalls almost never make me feel unsafe, probably because they happen when other people are around, and I'm not worried about getting attacked around other people. I usually get catcalled more the more attractive I'm trying to be, so I view it as a sign I did it well.
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I hate it. I had a guy follow me for blocks and blocks one time when I was alone, and it really freaked me out — nothing happened in the end but I'll never forget it — and I think of that every time I get catcalled
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Yeah I definitely feel very differently when alone, I also had a guy stalk me through deserted streets and then start chasing me when I started running. Other people around is super important for me to feel safe.
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