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usually they're people i'm in a physical room with who verbally suggest questions to me, though sometimes I use questions people just tag me saying it might make a good tweet.
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Can't you do both? I usually brood for a long time, weighing options against one another and discuss it with friends and family. Eventually, I will go with my gut which I considered informed by the rational prework I have put in.
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If the choice is between two things and I can't decide which one I prefer, then I flip a coin. While the coin is in the air my preference is revealed to me by acknowledging my subconscious desire for heads or tails.
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Reason to narrow down choices to a set of reasonable options. Feelings to select from the finalists.
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I make a big diagram of all the factors, big and small, legitimate and silly, emotional and reasoned.
I use reason(?) to decide how physically large to write each factor on the page.
After this sits for a week+, I use feelings(?) to look over the page and “feel” which is bigger
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