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    1. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 2 Jul 2019

      I suspect maybe my difficulty 'getting' nonbinary stuff is due to the strong lack of experience in my own life. I grew up in a world where being a woman was very shameful/got you treated worse, but that didn't mess with my gender identity. (cont)

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    2. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 2 Jul 2019

      I've had a really masculine brain - e.g. my mom dressed me until I was 16 because I didn't care about fashion, I'm particularly analytical, and also aspergery. I've been extremely aware my mind isn't very feminine, but despite this I didn't get weird gender identity feels. (cont)

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    3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 2 Jul 2019

      I also don't mind when I'm misgendered. I sometimes pretend to be male online, I enjoy occasionally dressing in drag. I've played a very male role in all my same-sex relationships. Throughout all this, I never felt like I was nonbinary.

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    4. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 2 Jul 2019

      Sometimes people assume wrong, negative things about me because I present as female. Sometimes (often?) I am the subject of sexual attention where I feel objectified by men who I want to take me seriously. Sometimes it would be *really* convenient not to be a fuck object. (cont)

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    5. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 2 Jul 2019

      All the above are reasons I've heard nonbinary afab people cite for why they're nonbinary, but it doesn't vibe with me. I don't understand what it means to 'feel like a gender' or 'not a gender.' I don't understand what the above reasons have to do with feeling like a woman.

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      Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 2 Jul 2019

      I think I'm a woman because other people seem to think I'm a woman, and the way other people see me seems like a useful thing to play along with. I don't have some woman-sense that exists independent of others, so in this way I deeply don't understand nonbinary people.

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        1. Kelvinho Efler‏ @disputed_proof 2 Jul 2019
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          Have you seen this old essay by Ozy? https://thingofthings.wordpress.com/2015/01/28/cis-by-default/ …

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        2. Linked Out‏ @UpperCayce 2 Jul 2019
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          Transpeople can recognize that their brain wants to process information in a way more like their target sex. By the same token, gender fluid people may be recognizing that this is occurring intermittently. I found a potential animal model for this a few weeks back.

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        3. Linked Out‏ @UpperCayce 2 Jul 2019
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          Prenatal exposure to high levels of IL-1b has been used to create rats whose behavior changes under changing levels of sex steroids, whereas it doesn't otherwise. https://www.karger.com/Article/Abstract/126560 …

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        2. “professional” “chef”‏ @SHLURPGOD 2 Jul 2019
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          I strongly, strongly recommend looking into @ContraPoints' videos. She helps tons of skeptics "get" nonbinary people. This one is pretty relevant to this line of misunderstanding - https://youtu.be/PbBzhqJK3bg  but many address a lot of questions like this.

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        2. Moriwen‏ @no_man_fathomed 2 Jul 2019
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          https://thingofthings.wordpress.com/2015/01/28/cis-by-default/ …

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        3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl 2 Jul 2019
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          I suspect I am agender, though people's descriptions of the difference between cis by default and agender have not been too helpful.

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        1. Jareh‏ @Jareh_London 2 Jul 2019
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          The videos and pictures of you show that you are totally feminine, but you keep saying that you are nonbinary. If someone just see your videos and pictures without reading your posts will not doubt you are a normal woman.

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        1. Ria Culpa‏ @Ria_ 2 Jul 2019
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          I relate to this on a very serious level. What even is "feeling like a male" outside of stereotypes and completely inane bullshit?

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        1. DC‏ @CPTLESS 2 Jul 2019
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          There's might be a particular sort of pain with being AFAB that (paradoxically) stings less for you -- partly due to your self-described "aspergery" ways -- and stings more for AFAB nonbinary peeps. I should note that I have no skin in the game and understand little about this.

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