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Ok retrying this question because my original phrasing was bad: You're on a great date, back at their place, you start making out. But before you have sex for the first time, they stop you and say "Hey, before we go any further, you should know that I have genital herpes." You:
  • End the relationship
    29.4%
  • Reduce sex/severe caution
    37.2%
  • Avoid outbreaks, nbd
    27.8%
  • Yay me too, herpes party!
    5.7%
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If they take the antiviral medication and you avoid outbreaks risk of transmission is very low. So I avoid outbreaks nbd, but they'd have to be on the antivirals too imo.
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If she hadn't told me before hand and I found out later that would be a problem. This? This is no problem as long as there's no current outbreak, and I'm happy she mentioned it in advance instead of being an ass and not doing so.
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I’d have to be madly in love with the person to take that risk . But I think 🤔 they should have said something on the first couple of dates before you fall for them . Cause no matter how in love you are relationships can end and you could end up having herpes for life