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Men: Imagine you're happily married with a child, but on your child's fifth birthday you discover that your wife cheated on you 5 years (and 9 months) ago and the child is another man's. Your relationship to the child:

Ends. Not my child.
16%
Reduces/develops limits
27.9%
No change, its my kid now
36.8%
I'm a woman/results pls
19.3%

10,249 votesFinal results

4:40 AM · Jun 18, 2019

Chandler Tuttle

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*Strongly* suspect that the “ends” votes are mostly from men without children. It’s truly hard to imagine what having kids is like until you have them. Would be great to see another poll with Dads segmented out.

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@then_there_was

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I plan on getting a DNA test a few weeks after having a child to always avoid this situation, which always seems to offend people when I say it. But it offends me that they’re offended, because it’s such a small test for such a large stake.

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There is no intellectually honest way to answer this question without having lived it.

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I wanna know when they tell the kid.

@_DefendFreeWill

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With the kid nothing changes. With her? Thats another story.

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Relationship to child is hard to gauge. Relationship to mother... might be stressed

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Damn, that's a tricky one... How much do I like the kid? 😅

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