Are you more likely to feel unworthy of a relationship, or date someone who feels unworthy of the relationship?
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Someone special I want finds me unworthy of a relationship, and all I have available for date is someone I feel unworthy of a relationship.
So, both are not just a likeliness.
Both are realities to me.
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Neither I, nor the people I date are screwed up enough to feel "unworthy" in a relationship.
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By many standards I'm a pretty sweet catch but I balk at the notion that anyone I date feels unworthy of a relationship with me; if they do chances are it won't last long because that position is poisonous to positive growth together, developing mutual healthy boundaries, etc.