That recent Gilette ad is fascinating and reveals what feels like culture's collective confusion over what gender is supposed to be. The ad starts by showing a sequence of 'bad' masculine actions - boys fighting, guys catcalling women, or shaming each other for crying. (Cont-)
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4. A father with his son breaks up a fight 5. A man resolving a fight peacefully 6. A father teaching his daughter to say "I am strong" 7. A father breaking up a fight between boys
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This list is Gilette's example of how men 'should' behave. In this list, three (four?) feature men in the role of "protector of women" - that a man's job is to protect a woman from other men. Another two feature men using their physical strength to stop fights. (cont)
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Only one shot on this list features something that seems feminine - peacefully resolving a fight. Gillette tells us it's bad when men show dominance over women, but then show shots of men acting as protector for women implicitly too weak to do it themselves
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Gillette isn't truly challenging masculinity, it's just redirecting it - it still uses the appeal to strength, power, and physical intimidation as being inherent to maleness - "Men need to hold other men accountable." It's stroking the war game urge in a socially acceptable way.
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Maybe this is all fine, but it does make me feel like Gillette - and the society it's so carefully catering to - is confused about what it means for a man to be 'good to a woman'. Both the bad and good worlds provided as contrast in this ad seem to remove agency from women.
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Men tell women to smile because cross faces intimidate them and remind them of their mother’s disapproval. Men are “fixers” they want everyone to be happy. Basic human 101.
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On three the guy didn't catcall at all. He said "woah" to himself, because he found her attractive, and then began to approach. Telling young guys that approaching women is "catcalling" is a great way to convince them to just not try.
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