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Bob, who is dating Alice, sends her a nude selfie. Later on at a girl's night, over glasses of wine, Alice shows the pic to her two close female friends, without asking Bob. This is:

Fine
8.2%
Sorta fine
10.2%
Sorta not fine
26.7%
Not fine at all
54.9%

1,862 votesFinal results

3:06 PM · Dec 28, 2018

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If someone sent be one I couldn't show anyone else. I feel like it should be a private thing between me and her.

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Should people be protected from their own idiocy.

@CPTLESS

Dec 28, 2018

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@Aella_Girl

Edgy opinion inc.: I feel like Bob will benefit more from Alice likely gushing over his nude form than if the genders were reversed. Yeah, on paper, sharing that pic is wrong, but a woman finding a man highly physically attractive is something worth preserving and encouraging.

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It should be the same for both sexes. Not showing a private pic.

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It's not fine, either way. In this scenario, she would have to think "How would I feel if Bob showed a nude I sent him privately to others?"

Armageddon on my Last Nerves

@ThammuzB

Dec 28, 2018

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@Aella_Girl

I put ‘sorta not fine’ b/c it’s wrong, but Alice & Bob may have already set boundaries that allow for this behaviour. If I was Bob, I’d feel both proud (that she felt it was worth sharing) and violated (that she didn’t ask first). I wouldn’t share Alice’s nudes w/o asking first.

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It all depends on the relationship dynamic Bob and Alice have. It’s between them, not others place to judge.

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My vote is cast based on the assumption that Bob hasn’t given express permission to show others the picture.

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Question: is Bob showing his face or has Alice told her friends it's Bob?

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I personally wouldn't care, but she should think how she would feel if he showed her nudes off without her permission. If she is cool with it then fine.