I just saw a friend post an image to FB saying, in honour of IWD, to “not be beautiful” but be intelligent, witty, etc. I mean I get the sentiment but I don’t know why we can’t be those things and also be beautiful? I hate how aspirations for women always position
Wanting to look good against being intelligent or funny. I mean, people should not be pressured to appearing a certain way but I hate the idea that women can’t care about how they look because that just takes away from other things.