I do feel, after having read a LOT of material on the subject n incels that there is a genuinely interesting and valid discussion to be had about the effect of intimacy (and lack thereof) on longterm mental health and wellbeing, and why people are feeling so excluded.
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I am not an apologist for disgusting misogynist rhetoric by any stretch of the imagination, but I do wonder what could change to make these people feel more welcome and accepted (in the long term) and if that's a problem that can even be solved.
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I don't think anyone 'deserves' to be alone. OfcSome ppl bring it on themselves with toxic/antisocial behavior. But it's my understanding many of these ppl are just very unattractive (by their own self-assessment) or awkward, and become toxic over the course of yrs of loneliness.
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I have something to weigh in. I'm a schizoid (Diagnosed) and don't necessarily need intimacy, let alone human contact. What I've noticed is the outspoken majority of incels equate sex as the cornerstone of their relationship. 1/?
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What this causes is a belief and a set of standards where they ONLY value the sexual aspects of a potential partner. In my case, I go through various traits a person has and look for emotional compatibility for companionship. So many of them look into this pickup game shit- 2/?
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And expect it to WORK and make them happy. The vast majority of Incels should stop, find the roots to their unhappiness beyond relationship denial. Hell make some male friends and work on yourself, be someone who you can be proud of being. Fulfillment doesn't require sex.
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Last post. From what I've seen, Loneliness sucks aa a feeling. No one wants to feel isolated. And it can really mess with more normal-minded people. These people aren't born hateful, They resort to it out of fear and desperation. And that's the tragedy, they awkwardly went incel.
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