Am I the Asshole?

The FIL was gonna prohibit them from giving her stuff to ease pain??

He was certainly gonna try. No halfway decent medical staff would have listened to him.

yeah the fact that the FIL is being over-controlling about *her* medical decisions is giving me wild bad vibes about what could have went down when the hubs was born.

After reading some further comments by OP I hope she goes and stays with a friend or family member until at least after the baby is born & cut contact with her husband until then too. They’re packing up her clothes and taking them away! If she doesn’t die, they will kill her.

I understand they have PTSD. But this is above and beyond. Packing up her pre-pregnancy clothes, having her record videos to show the kid for after she’s gone, etc. It’s too much. It’s just too much!

@AITA_reddit it says [removed] under the question does that mean what I hope it doesn't mean?

The mods deleted it, but there are a million different reasons they could have done that.

Since Twitter is hiding this reply under a cut...if you think all that is bad, her additional info is so much worse:https://twitter.com/such_hockey_wow/status/1221937381814800385?s=19 …

Does she realize she's literally in danger of being HURT by these men? It's a scary thought to confront but she really, really needs to and take any necessary precautions to protect herself and her baby.