I didn't date in high school or university. At all. I absolutely questioned whether I would ever find a woman who would love me. And yes, I did at times get upset that what I thought were my good qualities were being ignored or dismissed....
...but something I never did was lash out at a woman for rejecting me. And I never, ever thought the perfect response to my feelings was to commit horrific acts of violence. This 'incel' movement is baffling to me, and I hope I'd have rejected its ideology if it were around then.