Most upsetting: The affirmative model--by abolishing most "gatekeeping"--prevents clinicians from taking the time to really help young ppl think about the dating challenges they'll face. Sexual orientation is visceral; it can't just be guilted away with cries of "transphobia."
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"Gatekeeping" (mostly) ensured that only ADULTS who had spend years exploring the idea of medical transition were OK'ed for it. Now, 12 and 13-yr-old kids are making monumental, permanent decisions about their future sex lives (and fertility). Every "false positive" matters.
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(This isn't to say that Jay is a false positive.) But this kind of mentality is rampant. The only tool certain "affirmative" clinicians/activists are giving young lesbians is to say straight women are "transphobic" if they want an actual, natal male with an actual, natal penis.
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i don't even own dildos. fake dick is not appealing.
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Okay but 1-Plastic dick, even the good shit, is absolutely not the same as the real deal imo 2-My "cis" male partner can use toys too so how is this person special? If anything he has bigger, steadier hands

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Agreed. I absolutely cannot stand the feel of plastic inside me, not even the really expensive shit. It doesn't feel like a dick.
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Yeah, no. Not participating in that alternate reality.
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As a straight couple we use toys but at the end, it’s his dick that I want. It’s attached to him!
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Objects obviously beat sexual orientation. Duh. That's why every lesbian who likes strap is also into men now!
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Well the ones at Bad Dragon certainly are O_o
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