Ok ok what i really think it is is the fact that when dating men I really felt to various extents that I had to hide “girly” things about myself so that they would take me seriously and now there is no need to, in fact it’s good and an asset, and it FEELS SO GOOD
I have heard endlessly of men needing to convince women of their worthiness by showing no weakness, but this is the first I've heard of the reverse
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Men want you to be appropriately feminine but they also want to hate you at their convenience for feminine qualities, is the shorthand
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Similarly, and relating back to Beyoncé, guys want you to be attached to the idea of being married but still get mad when you assert your own agency in making that happen. Or something, IDK
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