They don't understand that you can nurture and prepare at the same time, the world is harsh and unforgiving yes,but don't make their home harsh too.
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Even after moving out & being on my own, there's solace at mom's. It'll always be home.I don't think there's anything wrong with feeling safe at Mom's no matter how old you are. She's not my therapist but she's pretty damn close. I don't think that's a bad thing. I'm so grateful
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I call that type of parent pre-abusing. People think they can pre-abuse their kids to make them tough.
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And then they're already beat down and end up facing even worse abuse bc they think its normal
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THIS. My parents did this throughout my life, making fun of my interests and opinions, even outright bullying me, all on the pretext of "you'll face worse outside". Well, duh, I'm already facing the "worse" outside. I just thought I could expect better treatment at home though.
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Just want to say that I feel you. While not so bad for me, I also had parents who were outwardly disapproving of my interests (said it was my own fault for getting bullied in school due to said interests). And now it extends to opinions and how I know nothing because millennials.
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Exactly. AND you're just contributing to keeping the world that way. The only way you get a world where people DO have empathy and take care of each other is by raising people that know what that looks like...
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Literally turning 30 this week and my mom still doesn't trust me in the house by myself and honestly just waiting for me to fail just to tell me "I told you so". At some point continuing to doubt me just makes me continue to doubt myself.

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I’m only 21 and my mom has been doing this ever since I started college, she never has anything positive to say, and everything I do, she just doubts me. It honestly just makes me feel like I’m destined to fail or something...
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Čini se da učitavanje traje već neko vrijeme.
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