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  1. Forgive and forget is an impossibility. Forgive? Yes! You forgive because it sets you free; the first step toward healing. Forget? No!
  2. You need others & you depend on yourself. Giving up your responsibility for satisfying your needs is a mistake. Stand tall together.
  3. Cherish your differences. Learn to accept and be with the things you cannot change about each other. It allows for individuality to grow.
  4. A determination to resolve conflict by conversation offers a chance for healing & promotes the opportunity to become much closer.
  5. Saying "I'm sorry" over and over for the same mistake doesn't work! Not making the same mistake again does.
  6. Your relationship priorities are clear now, right? Go first. Apologize. Do what's right! Say it. "I was wrong and I am sorry."
  7. If you need to get something off your mind, say it! Never candy-coat it or act like nothing's wrong. Be nice but Speak up. Soon.
  8. If couples would look for the one thing each day that made their relationship special for that day, what a difference it would make!
  9. True love allows for disagreements. Problems are not there to break you. They help make you a better partner; they help you grow.
  10. Silence is not golden. It's insulting to your partner & it erodes trust. Speak what's on your mind. Be honest. Say it with loving words.
  11. Relationship derailment is a troubling phenomenon. It's time for the death of finger pointing. Blame in a relationship doesn't work!
  12. Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. It is not something you do FOR someone else. It is not complicated. It is simple.
  13. Stay on track. Do what's right. Do unto your partner what you would have them do unto you. Indulge in honoring your combined efforts.
  14. Be happy now! It's a choice. Focus on the perfect present & its opportunities rather than worrying about past guilt or failure anxiety.
  15. The same energy you expend on anger, when re-directed, can help free you of the negative emotions you feel when you are angry.
  16. LoveNote. . . Plateaus and setbacks are natural to progress. Growth in an intimate relationship is never in a straight, upward line.
  17. Don't wallow in anger. The wise thing to do is to be present to our anger; acknowledge it. Create a new intention to move through it.
  18. A healthy love relationship can exist only between two strong & independent people. Two broken people cannot fix each other.
  19. Freeing yourself of negative emotions is something you do. It is never dependent upon whomever or whatever you think is the cause of anger.
  20. How wonderful to be in a relationship where partners feel free to express their wants & needs. Talk about anything & everything all the time