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Stuart_Diamond

  1. The attitude you bring to a #negotiation has a direct impact on the result. If you come expecting a war, you will get one -- and get less.
  2. In a #negotiation, questions are far more powerful than statements. A statement commits you to what you said & doesn't get you any info.
  3. @PoshDavo @gettingmore Thx -- appreciate the warm regards!
  4. @youngglobal No public lectures in NYC coming up but my schedule's always changing at gettingmore.com/schedule-2/
  5. @sungjun419 @gettingmore Great to hear! Hope you benefit from the tools and practice, practice!
  6. @youngglobal @GettingMore Things are great -- spreading these tools around the world incrementally -- as always appreciate your support.
  7. Global @GettingMore -- #negotiation twitter.com/Stuart_Diamond…
  8. @Ribeirox That's great news! I'm planning a trip to Brazil this summer -- my website gettingmore.com will have details.
  9. Estou muito contente por ver o meu livro no Brasil. @GettingMore in Brazil! twitter.com/Stuart_Diamond…
  10. When you focus on the other party's needs, you can move a long way from seeing money as the most important part of the deal. #negotiation
  11. Just b/c they sign doesn't mean you hv an agrmt. Get a commitment in the way THEY make commitments. This should be explicitly discussed.
  12. Bad process, bad result. If you fix a problem, but not the process that led to it, you will have another problem next month & the mo after.
  13. @villoslado Nice #negotiation! Good use of the tools.
  14. Only a couple seats left for the spring Getting More workshop! -- gettingmore.com/individual-wor…
  15. If the bargaining range is broad or uncertain, don't make the first offer. You are likely to #negotiate against yourself.
  16. You can argue w/ the other side about actual risk all day -- this is not as important as figuring out their PERCEIVED risk and reducing it.
  17. Exact words are important -- instead of, 'We don't trust you" how about, "How do we start to trust one another?" Make it easier to hear.
  18. Negotiating w/ kids is not a special skill - it's a lot like negotiating w/ adults: it's best done incrementally & there's lots to trade.
  19. Negotiation is situational-- it depends on the ppl & process in any situation -- Always focus on specifics, the ppl involved, and yr GOALS.